And proceeded to gorge ourselves in true Thanksgiving style. We had: a roasted chicken, french fries with ketchup, baked apples, salad, garlic bread, and pancakes and vanilla ice cream for dessert (a European touch from Mo).
The hospital visit put us back another few days getting started on our work at Tafi, so we are just now rolling on some of our ideas. Our mission is trifold: to assist in business management, tourism development, and community work (anything the community needs help with like teaching, tutoring, painting, farming, digging, etc.)
The four tour guides with whom we primarily work are wonderful, especially Sylvester- an extremely selfless and well educated Tafi native with an irreplaceable smile. The seven of us will work together to accomplish our goals (benefitting from the duel perspective of tourist and native guide) and will then report to the Tourism Management Committee, who ultimately must run everything by the chiefs and elders. This, predictably, has the potential to slow progress, since each decision must pass through three levels of authority. However, we are starting small and trying to stay optimistic through the slow pace of change.
In the meantime, the people of Tafi Atome have truly stolen our hearts. They are happy, proud, and extremely generous with the little they have.
An English woman a few years ago began a sponsorship program to enable more children to attend school. The program seems to be working well (I will provide details in the next post if you are interested) but it is not perfect. One of the tour guides, Patrick, is in a polytechnic University in Ho, thanks to a sponsor. Last Monday, he left the village to begin his second of three years, but returned Tuesday because his sponsor could no longer support him and had not paid his school fees. Sylvester explained the situation to us when we asked why Patrick was still here.
We want to help Patrick, but the situation is a tricky one. We cannot simply hand him the money, and if too many people hear we sponsored him, we will have beggars on our doorstep. After much conversation among ourselves and with Sylvester, we decided it is appropriate for us to sponsor him this year and try to keep that information among ourselves (he only needs about $150 USD).
We want to help Patrick, but the situation is a tricky one. We cannot simply hand him the money, and if too many people hear we sponsored him, we will have beggars on our doorstep. After much conversation among ourselves and with Sylvester, we decided it is appropriate for us to sponsor him this year and try to keep that information among ourselves (he only needs about $150 USD).
Now here is my question to you, the ones who have sponsored and supported me to be here. Do you think it is appropriate for me to help sponsor Patrick with the money I raised before arriving in Ghana? I am struggling with this question because Patrick is a personal friend who is in need. Though the money may help many down the line (like his future family), it is going towards an individual. What makes the greater impact: helping a few individuals or providing something for a group (a school, orphanage, or program)?
There is a second case I am struggling with even more. Before we left Mampong, Mavis (our host mom) explained to both Mo and myself that she plans to turn the empty building behind their house into a cold store (where you buy frozen meat and fish). But she needs some help with the startup money and asked if we would donate to her. Again, this is a situation where I would be helping a personal friend; however, this is something she wants to do. The family does not need to depend on the money she will make. How much does that matter?
These are questions I have been seriously considering recently and, though I know the final decision is my own to make, I would love to hear your input. Your support is a very important aspect of my trip.
These are questions I have been seriously considering recently and, though I know the final decision is my own to make, I would love to hear your input. Your support is a very important aspect of my trip.